Congratulations! It's lovely to hear, :)
By the way, our sister site - http://freespermdonorregistry.com/ has now a donor references forum, where women who have conceived can provide a referral for an identified donor - including things like how long it took and method, which are of course interest to other recipients, who might be considering this or that donor. Please do take a look!
http://freespermdonorregistry.com/index.php?option=com_kunena&func=showcat&catid\=91&Itemid=37
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--- In FreeSpermDonors@yahoogroups.com, "jankasegarcia" <jankasegarcia@...> wrote:
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> Hi,
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> I like to share with all the ladies out there who are skeptical about AI at home vs NI. Me and my wife for has gone to a fertility doctor and for the past 3 months were not successful and so we decided to do it at home. We did our research and found that many women have been successful at home with fresh sperm. We began to locate donors that were successful candidates but unfortunately 80% of them felt it was most effective doing it NI. I believe everyone has their own preference but speaking for myself I will not feel comfortable knowing another man had intercourse with my wife. I don't think I would be able to forget or forgive myself because this isn't just about me but also wife would have go through that with another man. After so much consider me and my wife decided to do it at home. We found a great candidate, who also has kids and was more than willing to take all the tests. We met up and had him donate four days before my wife ovulated and he continued to donate till the day she got a happy face on her OPK test. I personally took each specimen each day he did it and took a baby oral syringe filled the syringe with the specimen. I then had my wife begin to stimulate herself in order to create cervical mucous which helps preserve the sperm. Once my wife told me she would orgasm I would gently stick the oral baby syringe filled with sperm that was donated and release or inject her inside. My wife would have her bottom tilt up for gravity purpose and then proceed to start another orgasm in order for the sperm to be sucked in the cervix. This was our first time doing it at home after so much research we figure we had down. We waited about 2 weeks and decided to test when it felt time and I like to announce that my wife is now 6 weeks pregnant. I can't say which out of the 4 days the sperm took but all it matters that we succeeded. It was "I" not a doctor or a man who preferred NI.
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> So you see ladies doing it at home in private with just you and your partner can be the most effective. This way nobody is stressed, uncomfortable and feeling pressured. The best way to do it is to have hour girl or wife comfortable, relaxed and loved. Even if you have to light some candles and play some relaxing believe me it will take. I made sure my wife felt extremely relaxed and comfortable, after all this process should be made with love between you and partner. I thought I would bring hope to all the ladies and lots of "Baby Dust", that's what my wife says...lol
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> Good luck all...
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> Jayce
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> [from group owner ML: Thanks for the update, and good luck for the
> next few months and years! ]
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